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pleased for this week to be over

This week was kind of stressful for me. On Monday, I decided to call and make an appointment to see a high risk OBYGN doctor. I was able to see the doctor the same week on Friday. I thought it was going to be away til I could see him, but the person on the phone squeezed us in.
Tuesday at work I wasn't even there. My mind was so scattered because of this upcoming appointment. I literally couldn't function. That evening we went to the temple, but still my brain was in law-law-land. After there was this calm feeling that I felt and I knew everything was going to work out.  The next two days came and gone. The next thing I knew we are on our way to our appointment. At first we went to the wrong clinic, and again wrong place, but the third time we found it. This made my nerve elevate a whole lot. I was praying the receptionist would allow us to still be seen, she told me to have a seat and relax. So, I did exactly that.
This is what the doctor said...
There are a few tests to see if my immunosurpressants have or haven't affected my eggs and to check certain levels. After we have performed those tests, then we can decide to go through with surrogacy or maybe to choose another route. We also found out that if what we have is good and has a high chance getting us a baby, they can freeze our embryos for years. After we harvested my eggs and have an embryo we can have our surrogate pregnant within 6-8 weeks. There is a bunch of legal stuff that we have to figure out and counseling to find. In the end the appointment went well and there is a chance for us to have our own baby through a surrogate. I am very excited!!!
This weekend we went down to St. George with my parents to look at some houses and to see Steve's gma. She is the bestest 93 year old out there. Love her so very much. The best hostess, the sweetest and kindest, sometimes a wee bit sassy, one of the funniest, she can't really see anymore, and Gizmo is her best furry friend.

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