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surrogacy or what?

What my doctors said about me going to get my eggs harvested... They gave me a name of OBGYN that is great at getting eggs out. They never said yes or no about surrogacy. The main concern they have is when the OBGYN wants to get my eggs ready they have to put me on these hormones to get my eggs at the right stage. When women go on hormones they are more susceptible to get blood clots. Me and blood clots do not go very well and I do not want anything to do with them. They don't know if I am going to have to stop taking my blood thinner eliquis or not, but I have to wait til my annual visit. Which is okay by me. Every time I see a kiddo, I want to eat their faces off, but not like the walking dead stuff :) I just want a little guy that I can teach, watch it grow, to love, care, laugh together, stay up at hours that everyone should be asleep. Steve and I have been searching for an attorney and I think we have found one. Great appointment status right there. 

This past week has been normal. Still train for my half marathon, I ran the furtherest I have ever ran in my life. 8 miles!! Not on the treadmill though, thank goodness. The air quality was good so I took advantage of it. Amazed, I am about how beautiful our earth is, the sort of freshness of its air, and outstanding trees and mountains. Love this time of the season. 

Saw my good friend Mandy this weekend and she is moving to Hawaii.  I never thought about it when I put on my sweatshirt. She though it was fate. Going to miss her. Such an intelligent, strong, amazing and long legged woman. Love your guts gonna miss them too. 
Todays thought..."May we be devoted and disciplined followers of Christ. May we cherish him in our thoughts and speak his name with love."

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  1. That is so awesome you ran 8 miles. I know that you will be able to meet your resolutions. You are my inspiration!!

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